let yourself get hurt, but only get hurt by the people you love, sounds crazy but trust me, it will be worth it. you will both grow and learn from each other. just understand that you have control over who you allow to hurt you, don’t waste your time on anyone that doesn’t have the right.

some of that hurt seems insignificant now but it’s helped develop the way you think and they way you process your decisions. 



“And once the storm is over you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive. You won’t even be sure, in fact, whether the storm is really over. But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about.”

-Haruki Murakami


6 days ago i wrote a post, which was pretty dark. It got drafted and today I deleted i. no matter how long the storm lasts, its always temporary.